When connecting with alumni, avoid these common pitfalls:
Being Unprepared
Don’t reach out without researching about the alumnus / alumna or having clear objectives.
Asking for a Job Directly
Avoid immediately asking for employment. Focus on building a relationship first.
Overstepping Boundaries
Respect their time and privacy. Don’t be overly familiar or pushy.
Neglecting to Follow Up
Failing to send a thank-you note or follow up as promised can leave a poor impression.
One-Sided Interactions
Avoid only taking advice without offering anything in return. Look for ways to add value.
Inconsistent Communication
Don’t reach out only when you need something. Maintain periodic, meaningful contact.
Ignoring Their Advice
If you ask for guidance, show that you’ve considered or acted on it.
Sharing Confidential Information
Be discreet about personal or professional information they share with you.
Being Unprofessional
Maintain a professional demeanor in all interactions, including on social media.
Misrepresenting Yourself
Always be honest about your background, experiences, and career goals.
Forgetting to Network Horizontally
Don’t focus solely on senior alumni. Peers can also provide valuable connections.
Failing to Reciprocate
If they introduce you to their contacts, be willing to do the same when appropriate.
Remember, the goal is to build genuine, mutually beneficial professional relationships. Approach alumni connections with respect, gratitude, and a willingness to contribute to the relationship over time.